A message to all the Hot Girl Vixens
Hello, I am TJ the founder of TheG00dFellaz. I am the Subject Matter Expert on the Shared Wife Lifestyle. I know you are wondering what does that have to do with me?. I am reaching out because your profile indicates that you are a Single Female. Well under the umbrella of the Shared Wife Lifestyle we also have a term or place holder for Single Females called "Hot Girl Vixen". I will share with you a few definitions and explain how single females fit into the Shared Wife Lifestyle. First I will give you a test to see if you are a Hot Girl Vixen or a Unicorn. You will have to decide where you fit into the respective lifestyles.
Are you a strong confident single female, who's can be sarcastic because you are powerful and playful?
Are you an intellectual problem solver who's often misunderstood by beta males?
Are you a loner, seldom run in a pact, but a BOSS in your own right and control every aspect of your life?
Are you a single woman who embodies her sexual power and allows herself freedom to fully enjoy sexual experiences?
Are you an open-minded woman who pursues fun and flirtatious friendships, which are often, but not always of a sexual nature?
Are you a single woman who is comfortable with her sexuality and understands that "SEX", "SEXUALITY" and "PHYSICAL PLEASURE" are nothing to be ashamed of?
Are you a single female who understands that "SEX" and "LOVE" are not the same thing and can each be enjoyed separately?
Are you attracted to or aroused by intelligence in addition to other physical characteristics in gentlemen?
Do you enjoy meeting respectful gentlemen?
Are you a single female who enjoys the lifestyle, but in a SAFE SPACE where you feel your rules and boundaries are respected?
If you answer "YES" to any of the above questions then you fit into the Shared Wife Lifestyle as a Hot Girl Vixen.
A lot of single females identify themselves as Unicorns in the SWINGING LIFESTYLE: A single female (Bisexual) who is comfortable in intimate encounters with married couples. A "Perfect Catch" for couples because both Husband and Wife can both interact in the playdate but the Unicorn is not pursuing any one member of the marital dynamic. A rare find in the lifestyle and oftentimes believed to be non-existent. She is there for the couples pleasure and enjoyment, but also enjoys the encounter.
She is HOT in terms of her physical beauty and her sexual desires. She is woman (GIRL) who is strong, confident, powerful and often misunderstood by beta males. She has an insatiable appetite when it comes to sexuality (VIXEN) and allows herself the freedom to fully enjoy sexual experiences with multiple men. She understands the difference between SEX and LOVEMAKING and has friendships with men that are not always of a sexual nature. She is a QUEEN!
TheG00dFellaz are strong supporters of POLYANDRY: A form of Polyamory where women have multiple Lover's at the same time, but enjoy an independent Lifestyle.
Hot Girl Vixens should also understand the 5 Agreements:
DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS
DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY
BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD
ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST
BE SKEPTICAL, BUT LEARN TO LISTEN (Men will say what they need to say to entice your mind) I call this DICKSAND. Be skeptical if he says "I don't have anyone else in my life, but they can only text or talk during the day". "I am traveling to California this week, but you see he posted a Speeddate for Florida" and "I always wear condoms, but immediately trying to penetrate you without one". Men have a way of saying all the things that not only tug at your heart, but also awaken your INNER SEXUAL GODDESS, so really pay attention to what he says.
That was a lot to digest in a Happy New Year preview into the Shared Wife Lifestyle. I understand the value that Hot Girl Vixens bring to this Lifestyle, but I want to make sure the single women engaged in it also understand that their wants, needs and desires are extremely important when in intimate encounters or events where single men will be present. It's about the men catering to the women not from a place of sexual entitlement or sexual need, but from a place of truly being a MAN and taking care of a woman regardless if she is his life partner/girlfriend/wife, but because he is a gentlemen first and foremost. A man that creates a SAFE SPACE where women can embrace their sexuality on HER TERMS with one, two or multiple men without all the relationship jealousy related issues.
That's enough of a dissertation for now, but look forward to the next message regarding other aspects of the HOT GIRL VIXEN LIFESTYLE.